Why Is My Baby Refusing the Bottle? 5 Early Signs of Bottle Aversion
Is your baby refusing the bottle? Crying at mealtimes? Taking only a few sips and then pushing it away? If this sounds familiar, you might be dealing with bottle aversion—a stressful but common feeding challenge. Recognizing the early signs can help prevent long-term feeding struggles and make mealtimes more peaceful for both you and your baby.
What is Bottle Aversion?
Bottle aversion happens when a baby associates feeding with stress or discomfort and begins refusing the bottle. This can develop for many reasons, such as:
✔️ Pressure to eat when not hungry
✔️ Reflux, allergies, or discomfort while feeding
✔️ Negative experiences like choking or gagging
✔️ Feeding in an overstimulating environment
✔️ Medical conditions that make feeding difficult
5 Early Signs of Bottle Aversion
If your baby is showing signs of bottle refusal, it’s important to address it early to prevent further feeding difficulties
5 Early Signs of Bottle Aversion
🍼 1. Turning Away or Pushing the Bottle Away
Your baby may arch their back, turn their head, or swat at the bottle when you try to feed them.
😢 2. Crying or Fussing During Feeds
If bottle-feeding leads to tears or fussiness, your baby may have negative associations with feeding.
🥛 3. Drinking Less Milk Than Expected
A baby with bottle aversion may take small amounts and stop, even when they seem hungry.
🤔 4. Showing Interest but Not Drinking
Some babies appear eager to eat but then refuse the bottle once it’s offered.
🌙 5. Feeding Only When Asleep (Dream Feeding)
If your baby will only drink when drowsy or asleep, they may be avoiding feeding while awake.
Fine out why dream feeding is not a good idea.
How to Help Your Baby Overcome Bottle Aversion
If you suspect bottle aversion, try these tips:
✔️ Create a calm feeding environment – Reduce distractions, dim the lights, and feed in a quiet space.
✔️ Let your baby lead – Offer the bottle, but don’t force it. Allow them to control how much they drink.
✔️ Check for medical issues – Reflux, allergies, or tongue/lip ties can contribute to feeding challenges.
✔️ Offer positive experiences – Hold your baby close, talk soothingly, and make feeding feel safe and comforting.
✔️ Seek help from a feeding specialist – If bottle aversion persists, working with a specialist can make a big difference.
If your baby is struggling with bottle feeding, you’re not alone! Understanding the early signs and addressing them with a responsive approach can help your baby build positive feeding experiences.
💙 Need support? Little Eaters & Talkers offers in-person and virtual consultations to help you navigate bottle aversion and feeding challenges. Contact us today at Info@thelittleeaters.com or Book a free consultation.
